Dara~
I know this is a little late, but I just wanted to let you know that you are not the only girl that has ever had this problem. I defiantly did. I had the same problem from about 5th to 7th grade. I was never shy when I was around my friends, but I was definitely shy around guys. I had several “boyfriends” but we never hung out outside of school. We never talked and I never knew what to say. I always tried making conversations but it always seemed to turn into more of a game of 20 questions than a normal conversation a boyfriend and girlfriend would have. I always thought there was something wrong with me until I was in high school and finally found a boy that I could just have a conversation with. It was then that I realized that I just had to fid someone that I was truly comfortable with. So, if you are not comfortable with your relationship then don’t try to force it. As Lisi said in her blog about Twix, a boyfriend should make you feel comfortable and at ease. Don’t feel like you have to impress him, and if you are not comfortable going out on a date out side of school then just don’t go. You are young and still have plenty of time to go on dates. Just wait until you are comfortable and are with someone that makes you come out of your shell just like your friends do.
I feel like I have been rambling, but I hope I have helped. (And great advice Julia!)

Thanks 🙂 And TID is the Infernal Devices. You should read it, it’s awesome and I love Jem so much, I don’t want him to die. I really hate the fact that *spoiler* Will’s cursed. And you should read Delirium too, it’s a dystopian novel. And yeah, I better go 😛

No one ever said being fabulous and awesome was easy! But you’ll be so much better off! Never settle for a boy! You deserve wayyyyy better than that. With the right guy it’ll be easy, even if its completely different to how you imagined 🙂 Life’s a weird mix atm, like its pretty stressy and school is horrrrrible and my sisters sad at uni too so its all kind of messy, but at the same time im really positive at this moment in time? I had a good dance lesson, perfect chat with my boyfriend, and I have this app which helps you concentrate on the positive things in your life – so i think thats helping a lot! Plus I just finished an AH-MAZING book, books are the most amazing things in the world – along with cats, but thats a whole other story! its called The Tragedy Paper by Elizabeth Laban, the first few chapters are on figment somewhere to read first if you want! Hows your life going? TID? and i dont know what delirium is… England isnt that cool 😛 GO STUDYYYYYY

Oh and have you been watching PLL lately? I haven’t since what they did to Spoby but Toby died 🙁 And Jeremy died on TVD. Ugh, why do my faves keep dying? And I really hate Katherine for killing him.

Zula- I’m ALWAYS the one who has to do that. And it’s frustrating. But I probably will, but i don’t think I want to settle for something that’s so difficult to communicate with either. And how’s life treating you? I’m really excited for the next TID book, but I’m worried Jem will die 🙁 And I was excited for the Delirium TV show, but now I found out they casted the guy from Secret Life, ugh. Books are good though. And I have a HUGE test 2mrw so i can’t stay on too long.

🙁 I still feel a little sad tho. I hate so many guys. The guy i like-well the guy I don’t like, Charlie Bewley (atm) and Steven Moffat (all the fricken time, ugh.)

HI 🙂 And yeah, they really do. I swear, if I see a guy contradict himself and class me as something I’m not I’ll bite their head off.

Oh Hayleebear! Call me the suckiest internet friend ever, how long has it been this time? The answer, TOO LONG! Bah, im here for a chat now, if i dont go to sleep soon… it is midnight… ANYWAY! guys suck. They do. But then they smile and do something sweet and we love them again. Its a vicious cycle; so dont get too bogged down on boy drama, lawd knows there’ll be plenty more where that comes from in the future! But if you want to vent, be ma guest! I’m always happy to listen and do my best to help xxx